These are two very simple words that really sum up what being a consensual slave is all about. ‘Yes Master, your slave will obey. Yes Master, your slave will do as you want and not as she wants.’ It really is that simple.
What is hard is the doing and getting to the point of her being able to just say, "Yes Master," and really mean it and then to obey without hesitation or reluctance. Yes, Master is what surrender to someone else's will really means. Why is it so hard? The simple answer is that it means doing what someone else wants, not what you want. It means interrupting whatever you are doing to do something for someone else, now, not later. It means following someone else's choice, not yours. It means being outwardly directed towards some specific person to the point where you become an extension of them. In the end, it means that the slave changes who and what she was to what someone else wants her to be and that is a very hard and scary thing.
You will hear the terms Stepford slaves and doormats as pejorative terms for slaves who obey and don't question their owner. These are terms for slaves who will obey any command no matter how dangerous, illegal, or otherwise damaging. There are such people and the worst thing is that there are some who will take advantage of them and have them do very bad and/or illegal things. While it is found mostly in BDSM porn, it does exist to a small extent, also in illegal slavery, especially sexual trafficking. The terms come as insults mostly from people who are or claim to be submissive, sometimes slave, usually to their "One" and no one else. This is from people who cannot imagine giving enough of themselves to be this way, think it is an extremely bad thing to do or from people who have been taught that by those people. This is a harsh statement to some because of the truth it contains. This essay is only for those who believe they can do or who wonder if they can be.
The reality behind the phrases is that it doesn't mean the slave is no longer an individual or some preprogrammed robot. It means that they are simply putting someone else first, last and always ahead of themselves and trusting their judgements, ethics and responsibility for the slave. This means that the owner the slave submits to should be the kind of person who can be trusted in those ways. I wish that should be was always is. It isn't. That doesn't change what should be and what the goal of consensual enslavement is. The goal is, "Yes Master."
How does a slave get to Yes Master? The simple answer is by responding that way to every command or instruction. The hard part is responding that way to every command or instruction. There is no other way than just doing it. Yes, Master allows for a slave to question how to do something if needed. The implied why it is wanted is because the owner wants it. That should be implicit in the command and sufficient for why it is wanted.
The slave does not need to know why she is to do it. Not knowing why some command is given is a regular part of training the slave and part of reinforcing the enslavement as well. There are times when a slave should be reminded that she does not need to be told what, where, or why something is being done and maybe not even when until the time to do something is now. The simple example of that is the owner telling their slave, "We are going somewhere. Put these clothes on. We leave in ten minutes," and stopping at that point. No other information is given until they arrive at wherever and do whatever. The proper response to such statements should always be, "Yes Master," and then obey.
This is one of the basic, simplest and hardest things a consensual slave will ever learn. To say, "Yes Master," mean it and live it.
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