Consensual Enslavement

Notes For New Owners And Slaves

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These notes were originally published on the consensual enslavement Forum  on FetLife in two threads. Due to some requests they have been combined into one place to find the information.

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There were some additions based on suggestions made in the threads and elsewhere. Also changed was Master to Owner and the notes were made gender neutral even though my default assumption is male Owner and female slave. The exception is the phrase, "Yes Master." 

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Notes for the New Owner...

• • Ask for help.
• • Take very small steps.
• • Remember the Rule of Threes. If it is worth doing once, it is worth doing three times. More than three times three is boring. Stop.
• • Add on to what went before.
• • Plan ahead. Figure out where you both of you want to go and plan steps to get there.
• • If something works better than expected...you meant to do that.
• • Be honest...always and especially when you make mistakes and you will make them. Admit your mistakes and fix them as fast as you can.
• • If something doesn't work, try to figure out why and either try it again or drop it...at least for a while, maybe a long while.
• • Repeat, repeat, repeat.
• • Make and take notes and review your notes.
• • Read anything and everything you can that talks about serious training and don't be afraid to ask questions.
• • Sometimes it is good to be the Owner.
• • If it seems like a good idea, steal it. If it seems like a stupid idea, don't do it.
• • You own your slave; your slave doesn't own you. Remember that.

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Notes for the New Slave....

• • For every command, you start with the assumption that you will say, "Yes Master," and do it.
• • When in doubt, say "Yes Master," and just do it.
• • You can beg to explain, but don't argue.
• • You get the last words every time and they are, "Yes Master."
• • Ask your Owner for help.
• • Make and take notes and review your notes.
• • You are a slave to please him, not yourself.
• • Anything and everything you do, even if they never know about it, should be considered a service to your Owner.
• • Your Owner comes first, last and always.
• • Beg, don't ask.
• • Your Owner's word IS your law.
• • Tell your Owner when you have problems.
• • Owners like to fix problems.
• • Sometimes it sucks to be a slave.
• • You do get the short and dirty end of the stick, live with it.
• • You wait until he is ready. Learn to be patient and how to wait and do nothing.
• • They own you, you don't own anything. Remember that.
• • Your understanding is preferred, but not required. "Because I said so," from your Owner is a sufficient reason for you.